I want to give you this gift for my birthday!

Working with a client and getting to hear the joy in their voice at the moment they have a breakthrough in their life is the greatest birthday gift I could ever receive.  

After 38 years, a lot of ups and downs and many years of finding clarity and purpose for my own life, I've finally received the ultimate gift.  This year, I was given the gift of serving others.  It's a gift that is given, but must be taken as well.  

If I can help you live a life of more purpose so you can go out into this world and make a difference, then please reach out.  It would make my birthday extra special

Watch this video to see if my gift is something you would like to receive.  I love to share it with others because as we all know, it's better to give than to receive....

What would your ultimate birthday gift be?  Please comment below and watch this short video now.

The 90/10 Rule Of Life

If you think about what it really takes to succeed, it really only takes about 10% effort.  Unfortunately, the 10% I'm referring to is the last 10%.

So many people get so close to accomplishing a goal and then they stop.  You've probably heard the old story about the man who mines for years and only finds a little bit of gold and eventually gives up and sells the mine for a very small amount.  The man who buys it, begins digging in the same spot and in a short time he strikes a huge vein of gold!!

That is what happens to many people.  They get about 90% of the way to their goal, and then they stop and give up.  It's the reason people lose the same 20 pounds their entire life.   They do 90% of the work it takes to get to their goal weight, but don't do the last 10% of work it takes to stay there.

I'm no different.  I struggle with the 90/10 rule myself.  Most people don't reach the top of Mt. Everest, but they are 90% of the way there.  They are stopped by something and don't reach the summit.

The difference between reaching the top of Mt. Everest and reaching your personal goals is that failing to reach your goals is that typically one of the F.I.R.'s stop you.  The F.I.R.'s are your Fears, Influences and Reasons.

All three of these things are just thoughts and can be overcome.

Of course, there are real fears, real reasons and real influences that can stop you.  Much like a climber could get stopped because of a broken leg.  But the F.I.R.'s that stop most people are much more psychological than physical.

That is why I always recommend planning for the things that may try to stop you before setting out to achieve your goals.  If you know ahead of time what might get in your way, you can respond to them more quickly.

So plan for the 10% of what might stop you just before you reach your goals.

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What stops you from achieving your goals?

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Be UNSTOPPABLE today!

How To Overcome Setbacks Quickly

Please answer this question before reading this post - Are you human?  If yes, please read.

So many people get stuck because they feel like their mistakes define who they are as a person.  When they fail, they get stuck in a story of "I'm not good enough" or "Other people can do it, but not me."

What story do you get stuck behind that keeps you from reaching your peak?

I'm no different.  I used to get stuck behind my stories of not being good enough, not having what it takes, not being old enough or young enough.  Because I, much like you, am a human being and human beings make mistakes.  If you know you are going to screw up, then embrace it!

From now on, I want you to laugh at your mistakes as part of your creators greatest joke.  You were made as a perfectly imperfect creature who has to fail in order to succeed.  If you are not making mistakes, and if you are not messing up and failing, it's because you aren't doing something worth failing at in the first place!

I guarantee, you won't mess up or fail at watching television!  I guarantee, you won't fail or make any mistakes bringing the spoon of ice cream from the bowl to your mouth.  However, I won't guarantee that when you are working toward a goal, you won't mess up.  I won't guarantee that if you want to lose weight that you won't fall off track.

You might mess up, but don't give up....

Here are the three things you need to do in order to mess up, get up and get back on track quickly!

1.  Accept it!  You messed up!  It's going to happen!  Stop attending the pitty party where you are the host and the only guest.  Those parties are lonely places!

2.  Acknowledge it!  You were not living in the way you are committed to living.  It doesn't mean that you aren't the person you are committed to being!

3.  Communicate it!  You need to communicate to the people effected.  If you messed up and it effected others, talk to them about it.  Acknowledge that you were not living how you want to live and then re-commit to being who you want to be.

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