I want to give you this gift for my birthday!

Working with a client and getting to hear the joy in their voice at the moment they have a breakthrough in their life is the greatest birthday gift I could ever receive.  

After 38 years, a lot of ups and downs and many years of finding clarity and purpose for my own life, I've finally received the ultimate gift.  This year, I was given the gift of serving others.  It's a gift that is given, but must be taken as well.  

If I can help you live a life of more purpose so you can go out into this world and make a difference, then please reach out.  It would make my birthday extra special

Watch this video to see if my gift is something you would like to receive.  I love to share it with others because as we all know, it's better to give than to receive....

What would your ultimate birthday gift be?  Please comment below and watch this short video now.

Your Step By Step Guide To Achieving Your Goals!

Getting what you want in your life is actually quite simple.  We all have desires, but some people are just to afraid to actually go after what they want.  In this free 5 part video series, I'm going to help you discover what you want, identify what stops you, design your life and create a plan for getting anything you want!

I'm no different from you.  I struggled much of my life to create my life the way I wanted it to be.  It took me many years to finally learn how to design my life and then make it happen.  But I don't want you to struggle any more because you want something but can't figure out how to get it.

Whether it's an internal desire for more happiness, peace or joy.  Or an external desire for something physical like a job, a car, a house or anything else.  What you want isn't as important as how you go about getting it.

What I discovered was the fact that you can use patterns for success and getting what you want.  There are only 3 things that are stopping you right now.  I'm going to uncover those 3 things in these videos.  Then I'm going to show you how to literally design your life and get anything you want.

Click here to watch the videos I made for you.

How To Create The Time You Need To Achieve Your Goals

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How can you create the time you need in your life to accomplish your goals?

This is a great question, with a somewhat disappointing answer.  I'm going to disappoint you first, and then enlighten you!

The disappointing news is that you can't "Create" time any more than it's already been created.  What?  Here is what that means.  In the philosophical sense, time doesn't actually exist.  All we have are moments.  Time is was created by people as a way to measure.  If you didn't have any way to measure time, you would just have this moment.  So unfortunately, not you or anyone else can create time.  You can only create measurements of how you will use your moments.

I know that is a bit deep, and not needed for time management skills.  However, it's important to understand that time management is a myth.  You don't manage your time.  You commit to what you are going to do in the moments of your life.

I'll give you an example.  

Do you have to manage the time you go to work every day?  No.  You commit to that time because it matters to you.  Do you manage the time you watch your favorite show on television?  No.  You commit to that time because it matters to you.  This is the same for everything else in your life.  You commit to what matters to you in the moment.  If you didn't have a watch, or a clock, you would just do what mattered to you at the time.

Why do we commit time to something?  

We commit time because something matters.  You commit time to your job because it matters that you get paid and if you don't show up, you don't get paid.  You commit time to your spouse, kids or significant other because having that relationship matters to you.  Anything you commit to doing, at any time in your life, only happens when it matters to you.

So what matters to you?  

I'll tell you what matters to me.  Helping people better their lives, matters to me.  That is why I "Create" the time to get up every morning and create ways to help people better their lives.  My family matters to me.  That is why I spend a lot of time with them.  My time matters to me. That is why I guard it as my most precious resource.  

So what matters to to you?  Only you can answer that question.  When you decide what matters to you in your life, you will choose to create the time to make it happen.  

I'd like to help you decide what matters to you.  Leave me a comment so I can help you "Create" the time you need for what matters in your life.

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Put the S.M.A.C.K. Down! on your goals!

Sometimes I just want to walk up to people, smack them in the face and say "WAKE UP! You can live an extraordinary life!" 

Okay, so maybe I don't really want to smack them, because I'm not at all a violent person. 

However, I do want to put the S.M.A.C.K. down on them. Because most people just go through life, living a good life. So how is it that some people live extraordinary lives?

In my other post, "The ABC's Of Success" I taught you the simplest way to succeed at anything you want. Living an extraordinary life really is about the ABC's of success. Most people have no idea what "A" to take and how to be "C." However, none of that matters if you don't "B!"

What the heck am I talking about? The ABC's are a success equation and if you leave an element out, just like math, the equation doesn't work. Just like your goals, unless you do the work, having the life you want... doesn't add up! So let's get to work and put the smack down on your goals!

Years ago, "The Secret" came out and had everyone excited about their life again. People saw a new vision for their life and their belief was through the roof about what their life could be. So why is it, that most people haven't changed a single thing about their life?  I'll tell you, it's because the secret that wasn't told to you is that you actually have to do something toward the achievement of your goals in order to get what you want in your life.

"OOOHHHH, I actually have to DO something?  I can't just sit on the couch, watch shows about mansions and yachts and eat cheese doodles?  I actually have to work for what I want in my life.  That sure was a secret to me!" People said. "But what do I do? I want to be rich, and happy, and achieve my goals, but it doesn't seem like anything like that has happened for me. I guess this stuff just doesn't work"

NEWSFLASH! This stuff works! BUT NOT IF YOU DON'T! So wake up! Get off the couch and start putting the smack down on what you want in your life. Of course, you need to know what you want in order to actually work on it right? So where do you think a good place to start would be? How about by identifying what you want for your life!

Here is the 'S' in putting the smack down. Be SPECIFIC about what you want. Be specific about the steps you need to take in order to get what you want. Begin creating the life you want by being specific.

But haven't you been specific before? Haven't you, every year on new years day, been specific about what you want? Probably. But what you haven't been is motivated by your why. The 'M' is to be MOTIVATED by your WHY. Unless what you want matters to you on a deeply personal level, you won't maintain the motivation to achieve your goals.

The 'A' in the ABC's of success has a lot to do with the 'A' in putting the smack down. But they aren't the same. This 'A' is to be ACHIEVING. What are you achieving? Specific, Motivating steps toward your goal. Setting big goals in life isn't a scary thing. Especially when you break them down into smaller, achievable steps. Achieve your smaller goals, and you'll eventually achieve your major life goals.

If you have a motivational reason why, you'll likely have the 'C' you need to succeed. You need to be COMMITTED! Commitment is doing what you said you would do, long after the mood you said it in has disappeared. It's not easy to live the life you want, but it is simple! Be committed and you'll have the life you want.

Finally, KEEP GOING! The 'K' is to keep going and stay in momentum. You might fall off track now and again, but you're not derailed like a freight train, you're a human. People make mistakes and fall off track. Just because you fail doesn't mean you are a failure. The only way to truly fail at a goal, is to give up completely. So keep going!

Use the free GoalTrax tool to create your goals today!

Let me ask you a question.  If the next 5, 10 and 20 years are going to pass you by anyway. Do you want to look back on those years and know that you put the smack down on those years or do you want to look back years from now, and know that you allowed life to put the smack down on you?

I want to help you put the smack down on life! I'll teach you how to get anything you want in your life in my FREE video coaching courses. 

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